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Oscar Paul Montelongo, Jr., age 71, of San Antonio, Texas, passed away peacefully on Friday, November 28, 2025. He was born on April 15, 1954. He was preceded in death by his parents, Oscar Perez Montelongo and Ydalia “LaLa” Montelongo, and his sister, Madelyn “Nena” Villarreal. He is survived by his sisters, Yvette Arredondo and her husband, Arthur Arredondo, and Debra Montelongo, his nephew, Arthur Rene Arredondo, his wife, Amy Nicole Arredondo, and their daughters, Audrey Noelle and Allie Rielle; as well as his niece, Amanda Marie Arredondo, her fiancé, Dorian Hooks, and their son, Dorian Arthur Hooks II. Oscar also leaves behind extended family, countless friends, and colleagues who will forever cherish his warmth, humor, and unwavering loyalty. Oscar lived a rich and vibrant life filled with hard work, friendship, and passion. Throughout his life, he embraced several careers that reflected his dedication to people and community. He loved being a bartender, where he easily connected with others and built friendships that lasted decades. He proudly served as a fireman, demonstrating courage and commitment. Later, he worked for the Southern Pacific Railroad as a brakeman/switchman, a job he cherished and often spoke highly of. In his later years, Oscar found his true calling in restaurant management, a role he deeply enjoyed and excelled in. Through each chapter of his career, he made lifelong friends who became extended family. Oscar had a big heart and a vibrant presence that filled every room he walked into. He loved his dogs with unmatched devotion; they were his constant companions and truly his “children.” A Celebration of Life will be held on Wednesday, December 10th at Alamo Funeral Home, 624 North Alamo. Visitation will take place from 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM, followed by a service from 6:00 PM to 7:00 PM. Oscar will be cremated in accordance with his wishes. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to his caregivers, Rosa and Melinda, and the entire staff for taking such great care of Oscar and for spoiling him with kindness and compassion. Oscar will be deeply missed and fondly remembered for his generosity, strong work ethic, unwavering loyalty, and the love he showed his beloved dogs. His memory will remain forever in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.

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Oscar Paul Montelongo

April 15, 1954 - November 28, 2025